innocence

I hate how people use the phrase 'losing your virginity',
as if it was a set of car keys that you misplaced on the counter or something.
kind of like it was something that was stolen by a stalking predator of the night (or something to that effect)
It's still hard for me to get my head around the fact that 13 year old girls aren't having sex, they're "fucking"

[And you don't want to get me started on that despicable terminology. I will scream: I hate that word, used in that contex, so fucking much.
You don't have to be all lame, and corny, and call it Making Tender Love, or whatever, but you CANNOT refer to it as that word.
Just the technical term works just as effciently.]

In my grade, it's normal, and probably to assume that if a couple has been dating for more than about four months, they are having sex. Simple as that.
I can't understand the concept of any pleasure comming from sex without any love.
I'm not here to lecture--
honestly, I'm just realllllllllllllllllly confused about my ethics here.
my morals are so screwed.

Possibly literally.